In Her Own Words
About her
Three words to describe me would include spirited, kind, honest, amusing, cheerful, loving, spontaneous & a little shy. Oops, that was more than 3 - but I’m not sure which ones to leave out. I am also outgoing but quiet; light-hearted but serious; a bit wicked, very loyal. I expect I could come up with more, if needed. I’m just an average girl with, hopefully, enough good bits for my one or two minor imperfections to be overlooked.
I am young at heart with a warm disposition, tactile, demonstrative & I miss being a couple. Holding hands; dancing to a tune in the kitchen; the look between us that silently speaks volumes; all that stuff, plus.
Hugely important are my 2 adult sons, dogs, friends, health, honesty & random acts of kindness - they brighten every day. As does laughing until I cry, especially when the joke is on me. I love naughtiness & fun, but bad behaviour leaves me cold.
I am generally a sporty/active type - skiing to scuba diving, and other sports that don't begin with an s. Love cinema, theatre, music - turned up, especially when driving, & like to keep roughly across current affairs at home & abroad. I enjoy galleries - particularly in Italy, France & The Netherlands. Not pretentious, rather that I lived in The Hague - & had to take the opportunity in visits to Paris, Florence & Venice.
Historically property kept me largely out of trouble in London & the West Midlands for several years & it remains a passion. I love cooking for, & entertaining, family & friends, like fast cars (inc F1), fast horses, am fairly resourceful & excited for new experiences.
Bar a few bumps in the road, I’ve had a fortunate life & although deeply rooted in rural Surrey, I have also enjoyed living in Kensington, south of France & Herefordshire. I still have dreams to fulfil, including finding a rare, special man to share togetherness & the future. There is definitely time, opportunity & desire for that to happen. It would be wonderful if it did.
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About her ideal match
We would be off to a good start if you are with me on trust, love, fun & lots of affection. “Pointless” is so romantic to me.
I'd love it, & my knees would go very weak, if you have silver hair &:
Smiley eyes with a twinkle of mischief.
Warm arms to wrap around me & hold me close.
Are good with your hands - for holding mine.
Smell gorgeous.
A sharp wit to tease me - with the constitution to be teased right back. Ribbing usually leaves me helpless with laughter, it's the sapiophile in me.
I dislike drama, but (should a difference of opinion occur) it would be lovely if you could bear in mind that I prefer to be untroubled by facts. I have never found them helpful & they just muddy the waters. Particularly when I am not wrong. Or at other times, come to that.
We can share hobbies & interests, introduce new ones - or just appreciate time apart. It only matters that we look forward to reuniting. With luck you love being outside (walking, cycling, gardening - or other activities) in the country in all weathers & are happy at any social event.
If you are looking for a real relationship, prioritising each other, we could have an exciting and fulfilling time. Especially as the only games we would play are of the board/card/tile variety, in front of a fire. As long as you don't mind losing 😉.
If some of the above appeals & applies, we might be on a path to happy & romantic times - or at least a coffee to have a chat. If, however, you don't like dogs - I have 2 cockapoos - or live too far from rural Surrey, it may be a little tricky. But not impossible - the distance, not the mutts. They’re non-negotiable, although I might reconsider my position on the brown one.
Finally, I am definitely too reserved to make the first contact. You don't have to think of something funny, clever, or whatever. If you would please just say hello I will say it back & we can go from there - just as if we met in person. (Oh, as long as you have a photo).
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Guildford (Surrey Hills), Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Private school | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district RH5 (Dorking) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
62 - 69 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Greying; Grey; White; Balding | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Motoring; Movie Channels; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Reading; Shopping |
Sports: |
Cycling; Horse Riding; Motorsport; Scuba diving; Swimming; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Japanese; Thai |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Soulmatches: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |
