In Her Own Words
About her
Hmmm. Friends describe me as fun, outdoorsy, loyal, cheeky, kooky and kind. Not into nails, shoes, filters and selfies. I do like Star Wars, Marvel, Lego, Festivals, camping, DIY, singing and song writing usually silly comedy songs on guitar and uke. I do try to be serious but it’s hard.
I also love travelling, drawing, painting, sculpting, puppet making, lighting fires (not in a sinister way) and getting muddy. Love dressing up. Very much in touch with my inner child.
I also seem to enjoy most 80’s stuff (Ghost Busters and Empire Strikes Back favourite cheer me up movies) most zombie stuff, the Boys, South Park and Rick and Morty. I have done some survival courses so would be useful in case of Armageddon.
I’m sociable but also like my own company. The best people are the ones you can quietly co-exist with and not have to always fill air space. My last birthday my friends came over with cocktails while I drank tea and built some Lego flowers. I just really wanted to build my Lego without my 6 year old wanting to ‘help’. I was listening. I like finding random bags of Lego and creating something. I also like Comic con, enjoy a trip to a VR pod in Hackney. I’ll take you out on cool dates if you’re into gaming. I also enjoy playing pool although it’s been a while, snooker and would love to join a box war some day.
Hoping there’s a being in the multiverse that’s a match for my weirdness.
About her ideal match
Drama free. Someone who has a good heart. Who isn’t still carrying past heartbreaks with them.
Someone kind, fun, honest, loyal and a bit kooky.
Someone with nice friends who understands I need time with my friends too.
If I’m gonna be super picky I’d love it if they have a nice kid of a similar age to my daughter. She’d love to be a big sister and is a very well behaved sweet natured kid.
Someone without a tumultuous co-parent situation or an ex that is on some kind of mission to ruin their life.
Someone arty who could sing and play an instrument as I’ve never dated anyone who will sing with or for me. Someone who watches similar things to me and is a bit handy as I have a family of trades men so I’m not afraid of a power tool or a trowel.
Someone who wears their heart on their sleeve like I do. I’m very much a what you see is what you get type and my face always shows how I’m feeling. I’m quite blunt and to the point so no hint dropping just direct communication. That might be the Italian in me. I’m half Italian.
My love language is physical touch, acts of service with quality time also meaning a lot as I’m a lone parent and my time is precious.
Deal breakers are:
Nightmare kids/ex’s
Poor mental health
Lying
Neediness
Being a dog owner that doesn’t pick their crap up
Someone who should be looking for a maid
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
St Albans, Hertfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district AL9 (Hatfield) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
39 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 8" (204cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Celibacy; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
It's a weekly ritual |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Horror; Independent; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Gardening; Music; Painting; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; Voluntary work; Woodwork; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Camping; Hiking; Martial arts; Scuba diving; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Soulmatches: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |